>"for, said he, all that is, is for the best... it is impossible for things to be
other than they are, for everything is right" -pangloss
this qoute clearly states that nothing happens out of the blue, but that everything happens
for a specific reason. Something may happen and it may seem wrong, but in actuality
it was destined to occur. This simply means that there is a higher being or force, greater
than that of a human`s determining exactly what happens to someone. Thus, it is
not wise for one to waste good emotions and blutter
them with sorrow, for any tragedy is not tragic, but
was meant to be.
---for you are certainly right jemilah. i too, am going
through it, and i finally realize.. | 
